Glimpses of the Future: What a 4B Society Could Be

Glimpses of the Future: What a 4B Society Could Be

We know that 4B works wonders for women on a personal level—providing safety, clarity, and a reclaiming of time and energy that would otherwise be drained by male-centered relationships. But what would 4B look like on a societal level? What would it mean to live in a world where women aren’t just surviving, but truly thriving—together?

While we haven’t yet built a full 4B society, we’ve seen glimmers. These are brief, rare moments when women gather in large numbers, where male presence is not completely eliminated, but it is minimal or subdued, and the air becomes lighter, freer. We’re reminded in these spaces that peace is not a myth—it is possible. It’s not just a dream, it’s a direction. And we’ve already stepped into it, even if only for a night.

One example is the atmosphere created during concerts by female pop stars—where women show up for each other, excited and safe. Kat Brown of Stylist described her experience at Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour as a temporary utopia.

“Taylor Swift’s Eras show was a safe space – when I left, the bubble burst | Stylist

“This was a cat-call-free zone. Any straight men were either with partners or families (and singing along better than I was). There was a total absence of all-male groups. Everywhere, people were exchanging warm congratulations on outfit decisions and swapping friendship bracelets…”

Although some men were present, they were quiet. Careful. Polite. The overwhelming presence of women created a sense of safety and community so strong that even misogynistic men were stripped of their typical power. They couldn’t leer or grope or shout. There was no male majority to hide behind.

What women see at these events is more than a concert. They are previews of how things could be. A brief window into a society shaped by and for women.

In these rare moments—whether at a concert, a conference, a book club, or even an informal gathering of friends—women experience a kind of joy that is difficult to describe. It’s the joy of feeling seen without being watched, of expressing without being judged, of dressing for comfort or creativity without male commentary. These spaces are liberating not because they are extravagant, but because they are safe. Safety allows joy to blossom—spontaneous laughter, uninhibited dancing, genuine connection.

Without the constant male gaze, women can relax into themselves. They cheer for one another’s outfits instead of competing. They share water bottles and snacks. They trade stories, advice, and bracelets. They hold each other’s places in line and trust that no one will cut in. These are not just kind gestures—they are the early signs of a cooperative society, one that prioritizes care over control.

And beyond the emotional joy is the radical realization: this is what it feels like to belong. To be surrounded by others who understand, without explanation. To walk through a crowd and feel no threat. These moments are real—they are powerful. They reveal what is possible, not just on stage or in entertainment, but in every part of life. They show us that a world built by women could be filled not with competition and conquest, but with connection, protection, and peace.

While women don’t exist to pacify men, there’s no doubt that even men will benefit from a society where they are safe from the violence of other men. Men who attend events with high amounts of women often feel much safer and at ease from being away from other men. When spaces with a significantly higher ratio of women-to-men become more common, men will have to worry far less about the violence that comes from other males. No longer will they have to be worried about murders or robberies. This is why as 4B grows, there’s always going to be a portion of men that supports it, because they will understand that male-led society offers them no peace or stability.

The Stylist article ends with a sobering note. The writer leaves that euphoric bubble of female camaraderie and re-enters the male-dominated world:

“It wasn’t that cold on the street, but I put my glittery jacket back on anyway… four lone men called or muttered out to me as I walked past them to the bus stop. How bloody exhausting.”

We all know that feeling. The sharp drop from joy to vigilance. The way our shoulders tighten as soon as we leave a women’s space and walk into a man’s world. It’s a reminder that the fight is far from over.

Every gathering, every safe space, every moment where women are able to just be—those are our blueprints. That’s what we fight for. Many women are still tied to men, whether emotionally or socially, but every time they step into spaces like these, we show them another way. We show them they can choose differently.

These glimpses of peace are not just fleeting dreams. They are rehearsals for the world we are building.

And we won’t stop until it’s permanent.