Living Single Can Set an Example for Other Women

Living Single Can Set an Example for Other Women

Too often, we hear stories of heartbreak and abuse from women, many of whom find themselves stuck in relationships that don’t serve their well-being. Despite this, there’s still immense pressure on women to keep pursuing relationships with men. It’s a pressure that’s deeply ingrained in our society, reinforced by the media, movies, music, and even by well-meaning friends and family. When women see others around them getting into relationships or getting married, it’s easy to feel like something is missing or that they are being left behind—especially if they aren’t aware that being single can be empowering and fulfilling.

Unfortunately, even with the stories of the dangers of relationships with men, many women still feel compelled to marry or get involved with men in order to be a part of society. This societal conditioning runs deep, and it’s not easily shaken by facts alone. It’s why it’s so critical for women to have real examples of single women around them. The rise of single women today is showing many others that they don’t have to follow the traditional narrative that says a relationship is the ultimate goal. But there’s still much work to be done to make this a more widely accepted norm.

Living single doesn’t just free you—it has the power to create a ripple effect that can change society. Every woman who chooses to live independently sets an example and helps normalize singlehood. The more women embrace this path, the closer we get to tipping the scales towards singleness being more common than relationships. By 2030, it’s predicted that 45% of women will be childless and single, but why wait until then?

The truth is, some women can’t be reached by talking about the dangers of men alone. It’s not their fault or yours—this is simply the result of years of patriarchal conditioning, where women have been socialized to think that their worth and purpose are tied to relationships with men. But if they see single women thriving, they will begin to realize that relationships aren’t necessary to live a full, rich life. This is the power of examples. When women see others living independently and being successful, it can shift their mindset in a way that no amount of writing or arguments ever could.

At 4B, we write extensively about radical feminism and the power of independence. Many of you, our readers, resonate with this content, and we believe deeply in the power of words. But not all women are connected to 4B or have the time to read our work. To reach a wider audience, it’s not just about writing—it’s about living the example. When you choose to live single, you’re doing something revolutionary. You’re showing the world that women can thrive without the need for validation through relationships. This act, in itself, is a powerful message that reaches beyond any article or book.

By simply living as a single woman, you engage in an important and revolutionary act. You challenge the narrative, you inspire others, and you help build momentum toward a future where singleness is no longer something to be ashamed of or feared, but something to be embraced. And as more women make this choice, the change will spread rapidly. We’re already seeing the beginning of that tipping point in America, and we believe that the future is bright for women who choose to stand tall and live for themselves, not for a man. ♀