Men Are Right, But Still Wrong, About One Thing

Men Are Right, But Still Wrong, About One Thing

4B means staying away from men, but sometimes men are right about things. They may not have the right reasoning and may not come from feminist understanding, but certain observations they make can still be true. One thing that men are right about, is that far too often, women do get with “criminals”, “deadbeats”, “losers”, and generally men that are no good for them. While men make these complaints from a point of victim blaming rather than to inform, there is a truthful message here. Why do we get with men that are no good for us? Why do we get with men that even men don’t want? To be clear, it’s never a woman’s fault for ending up in a bad relationship or to be abused, but we need to tell ourselves that we no longer have to go down the path that leads to destruction in the first place.

Where men get this wrong is that they think that if women choose the right men, they will somehow be spared the terrible fate and go on to live a good life. All men think they are the only ones who are not the criminals or the abusers. In reality, all men should be avoided and thought of as potential abusers. We don’t need to prove to men or ourselves that we can “choose” the right man. The simple answer is to avoid men altogether. Not all signs of abuse will be visible immediately to the public. Men go to great lengths to hide their true nature to women, so you can never trust any of them. They will definitely act different around their male friends, revealing their true misogyny. If they have you alone and away from witnesses, you can expect abuse to follow.

Let’s be completely honest. We have to raise our standards as women. How often have you seen a university-educated female dating a criminal dropout, or women taking care of men that can’t even hold a job? Why do we give men a chance that even their fellow men won’t give a chance? If other men aren’t housing or feeding their male friend, why should we do it? We don’t need to be taking care of men that are stealing from us and abusing us.

We understand that some may call for us to ask for men’s behavior to be changed instead. Men’s behavior is not going to change. This is reality. They will continue to be abusers and rapists and you cannot change them with words or logic. The legal system is not going to help, and neither will the police. The best option as a woman is to stop dating men altogether. Avoid relationships with them in the first place. This is not extreme, it is a necessary action.

We should listen to men and stop dating criminals. We will however take this further, and stop dating all men, because all men are inherently criminals. 95% of men watch porn. The percentage of men with girlfriends or wives is much higher than 5%. Just based on this one statistic alone, and not taking into account other various crimes, something is truly wrong. Go 4B, your life and safety depends on it.