Men Caused Their Own Loneliness Crisis

Men Caused Their Own Loneliness Crisis

Most women are not 4B. This may be unfortunate, but despite our movement gaining more traction, this is simply the truth. Most women out there do want a relationship with men. Some women have been constantly searching for one. Yet, even despite this, men have behaved so poorly, that even women that do want a relationship have often completely given up on men.

Men have caused their own loneliness crisis. They have caused women who actually wanted men to not want men anymore. Instead of taking this as a sign and changing for the better, men continue to be misogynistic. Some of you may wonder, “Why don’t lonely men just help other lonely men?”

The disturbing truth is that men do not feel full unless they have power in an abusive relationship. Although they could easily take the time to form friendships with other lonely men, this will not satisfy their depravity. An equal relationship with a woman also won’t satisfy them. Men only feel not “lonely” when they can act out the “traditional masculine” roles promised to them by older men. This means that they need to have complete control over a woman’s actions to feel complete. Men only feel whole when they can make women less so.

The truth is clear. Women never forced men to be lonely. For decades and decades, women have paired with men when it hardly benefitted them. They have offered countless hours of free labor, emotional support, and taken on the extreme burdens of pregnancy and childbearing. Women did everything they could to support men, despite the unequal relationship. Women always made sure that men could have the easiest lives that they could possibly have.

But women are starting to realize that no matter what they do, it will never be enough for men. Men will always be misogynistic and treat women poorly. It almost seems that heterosexuality is a biological curse, and indeed it is. What’s the point of being attracted to men, when they are our biggest abusers?

Why is it that so many seemingly “good men” turn to espousing extreme right-wing viewpoints when they no longer are in a relationship? It is because they were never good to begin with. They were just maintaining a veneer. If a man will instantly turn to hateful radicalization the moment he doesn’t have a girlfriend, than he was deceitful and malicious from the start. And men regularly do this. When they do not have access to relationships or sex, they quickly turn to racist and misogynistic views, being easily led by ideologies like fascism and Christian nationalism.

Women can be without a relationship just fine; even most heterosexual women who wanted a relationship can accept that it will not happen. We do not turn to hate or violence. We never had to threaten men that they had to be with us or we would start to hurt or kill them. We are simply not like that.

Maybe it isn’t even accurate to call what men experience the “loneliness crisis.” What is really happening is that men are lamenting their loss of abusive power. They simply begin to break down and not function when they do not have women or girls to abuse anymore.

Women have seen the truth. They cannot save men, no matter how much they go out of the way to help them. And despite what men have done to us, we do not waste our days wishing ill onto them. What we have found is what is best for us, and that is to abstain from having sex with men or entering into relationships with them.

There are many women in relationships with men that are still hurting. Let us continue to spread the message of female separatism, so they can finally be free. ♀