The Most Downloaded App Is for Women — Not Men. Welcome to the Rise of Tea

The Most Downloaded App Is for Women — Not Men. Welcome to the Rise of Tea

This week has brought huge wins for women — and many of them are taking place exactly where men thought they’d always be in control: tech.

Uber has started piloting a female-driver option for its rideshare service. The United Kingdom has finally passed legislation requiring age verification for pornography. And now? The Tea app has officially surpassed ChatGPT as the most downloaded app on the Apple Store.

Let that sink in.

An app built for women — to share experiences, expose unsafe men, and protect each other — is rising above the most powerful AI system in the world. That’s not just a tech milestone. It’s a cultural one.

What Is Tea?

Tea is an app that allows women to privately share reviews, warnings, and notes about their past dates. It’s built to promote transparency, help women make informed decisions, and prevent abuse by spotlighting men who’ve mistreated women before.

In short? It’s a safety network — a living archive of women’s experiences in a world where men refuse to be held accountable.

Visit the official Tea website

A Long-Overdue Tool for Women’s Safety

For decades, women have had no way to warn each other. Abusers would move from city to city, relationship to relationship, with no consequences — and no trace. But now, with Tea, those days are ending.

Women are waking up.

And as they do, they’re realizing just how depraved, manipulative, and dangerous so many men truly are. The stories shared on Tea aren’t just isolated incidents. They’re patterns. They’re evidence. They’re truth.

From Exposure to Awakening: The Path to Separatism

We believe Tea is a good start — a necessary one. It lets women see the truth, hear each other, and protect each other. But let’s be honest about what that truth reveals:

There are no good men to date.

And dating them at all is a risk most women simply shouldn’t take.

Tea is a wake-up call. For many women, it may be the first step toward female separatism — toward building a life, a community, and a future that doesn’t center men at all. Because once you know the truth, you can’t un-know it.

Some women may at first refuse to acknowledge the truth when it comes from a feminist group or an academic article. But when hundreds of women’s own firsthand experiences confirms the same thing? That truth becomes undeniable.

Women Are Now Shaping Tech — And the World

Let’s not miss what this really signals: women are finally taking back the digital space.

For too long, men have dominated the tech world. They’ve built tools to exploit, monitor, and control — platforms that amplified their voices and silenced ours. But now, that’s changing. Women are creating tools not to manipulate or monetize each other, but to protect, support, and uplift one another.

Tea isn’t just an app. It’s a manifesto.
A rebellion.
A blueprint for what a female-centered tech world could look like.

And the fact that it’s now the #1 app in the country?
That means the world is listening.

Let’s keep building. Let’s keep protecting each other.
And let’s make this just the beginning. ♀